ChatGPT for the Moms

Spring has sprung, and Guggenheim shows it.

My mom is a vi­o­lently in­tel­li­gent woman. But she lives in the un­for­tu­nate re­al­ity of not be­ing a soft­ware en­gi­neer or math­e­mati­cian. While she is just as ex­cited about ChatGPT (and all the other nascent AI tech­nol­ogy) as the rest of us, she is­n’t aware of the un­in­tel­li­gent pit­falls ar­ti­fi­cial in­tel­li­gence has these days.

If you’re mom is ex­per­i­ment­ing with ChatGPT, I’d highly rec­om­mend send­ing this list to her. Pow­er­ful tech­nol­ogy is in their hands, but I’ve got three things they should know be­fore re­ly­ing on it.

Advice for Moms

Use Web Search

When you open up ChatGPT on a phone or on a com­puter, you’ll be met with the fa­mil­iar chat win­dow. If you ask it ques­tions it will give you an an­swer. Some­times that an­swer will be good, some­times not.

You can gen­er­ally get bet­ter in­for­ma­tion if you en­able the web search tool.

A screenshot of the ChatGPT web search tool.

This will al­low ChatGPT to do Google searches on your be­half. It im­proves the qual­ity of in­for­ma­tion it gives you, while only adding a sec­ond or two to their re­sponse.

It Is Not Your Friend

When we see a chat win­dow, our first thought is that there’s a per­son on the other end. Some­one with emo­tions and lives all their own.

That is not the case here.

ChatGPT, while an ad­vanced ma­chine learn­ing model, is not a per­son. It does not re­place real hu­man con­nec­tion.

It can’t watch your kids when you’ve got an emer­gency. It won’t show up to the school recital. It does­n’t care about you—de­spite what it says.

There’s a lot that goes into a gen­uine so­cial con­nec­tion, all of which are miss­ing from ChatGPT.

Use Your Brain

ChatGPT is no sub­sti­tute for crit­i­cal thought.

It can­not do most things, even if it claims it can. You are a ca­pa­ble hu­man be­ing—able to ac­com­plish any­thing you put your mind to. While ChatGPT can be a help­ful as­sis­tant or brain­storm­ing part­ner, don’t let it steer the ship.

What to Remember

While ChatGPT can be a pow­er­ful tool in the right hands, it is im­por­tant to re­mem­ber it is just that: a tool. It can be en­hanced with the right set­tings, it is not real hu­man con­nec­tion, and it can’t re­place your brain. Use it well and use it wisely.